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ten blog tips…

June 20, 2008 1 comment

read this on mark battersons blog…great read for bloggers! have you ever read someones blog and wondered, why did they post that? theat’s too much info! don’t they know there boss and the rest of the world is reading this.

here’s the advice mark batterson gives…can’t wait till his book comes out! gotta get one!
Blogging came pretty naturally to me because I’ve always kept a journal. But over the years I’ve learned a few do’s and don’ts. Here are ten of them. I view them as my personal guidelines for blogging.

1) Stay Positive

Life is too short and the Kingdom Cause is too important for the sideways energy of negativity! In my opinion, too many blogs try to stir up controversy. And it’s almost always someone who has a very small readership. A blog is not a license to go negative or take potshots.

2) Include Hyperlinks

Remember the fear that technology would turn us into nameless, faceless autobots? That it would kill community. Again, it’s no replacement for face-to-face. But I think it’s had the exact opposite effect. It brings people together in amazing ways. And one way that happens is by linking to one another.

3) Keep it Short and Sweet

It’s a blog not a book!

4) Don’t let commentors hijack your blog

Here is a personal rule of thumb. When people post comments I try to discern the spirit behind the comment. If I feel like someone is trying to bait me or hijack my blog then I resist the temptation to go there. Here’s one lesson learned. If someone’s comment is longer than your post they might have an agenda! I do think it’s healthy to engage in respectful debate. But don’t let it cross the line.

5) Tell Your Wife About It Before You Blog About It

Guess how I learned this lesson? If your family has to read your blog to know what is going on in your life something is wrong! One critical decision you have to make is how transparent you’re going to be. I try to be emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually transparent. But I do have boundaries. For example, I don’t post pictures of my kids.

6) If You Wouldn’t Say it to Their Face Don’t Blog It

Again, I think we need civility and respect. I think there are ways to rebuke, exhort, and correct via blog. But do it in a gracious and redeeming way. Here’s the problem. That takes far more work! Meanness is laziness. Tactfulness is hard work.

7) Know Your Audience

Would you blog if no one read it? I think that’s a good litmus test. Obviously, if you are blogging you are doing it so people can read it. But I primarily blog for myself–it’s my journal. It’s the way I keep track of what God is doing in my life. But you also have to be cognizant of your audience. I have two primary audiences: pastors and NCCers. From a numbers standpoint, pastors are my primary audience. From a personal standpoint, NCC is my primary audience. I also know their is a growing audience amongst those who have read one of my books.

8) Be Yourself

A blog ought to be as unique as you are. It takes a while to find your voice. But don’t worry if it’s different. Different is good. I ought to be able to figure out your personality type by reading a month of entries!

9) Find Your Rhythm

Part of blogging is finding a way for it to fit your lifestyle. I think it’s critical that you be consistent. Consistency is key! But don’t revolve your life around your blog. Your blog needs to revolve around you! By the way, I used to think that my blog supplemented my sermons. Not so sure. Now I wonder if my sermons supplement my blog.

10) Stay Positive

I know. I know. I listed it twice!

why blogging…

April 28, 2008 1 comment

this is the place where i let people in on all the rants and raves associated with my life and ministry. there seems to be a connection made when people read about every day life…the ups and the downs and everything in between. who reads it…friends, family, staff, my boss, people in ministry and of course people that search google for phrases like cat eye…huh. well i wrote a post a year ago about an expereince at a dry cleaner and a lady with a cat turd in her laundry…it was rank, but got huge reads…this is just one story in my life. sometimes you just gotta laugh at life, even in a blog!

why do you blog?

blogging milestone …

March 18, 2008 1 comment

i hit 300 posts today…this is 301… 
views 19,662…i guess somebody reads this stuff! i can remember when a friend came back from a conference and said we all needed to blog on staff! i have never stopped.

welcome to my world…my rants and raves.

who i think needs to blog…

March 9, 2008 Leave a comment

i wrote yesterday about people whose blogs i read…i find myself reading and connecting with the thoughts of senior pastors as much as youth pastors…now that’s some intersting insight. today in the middle of a service i found thoughts wandering into the role of a lead pastor of a church…then i took captive that thought and made it obedient. well at least supressed. so here is a short list of people i think need to blog and would impact lives of people like me greatly!

1. jim raley
2. td jakes
3. roger clemens
4. tiger woods
5. greg maddux

why are these on a short list…i list these because they all have a different approach in life…from the preacher-it would be great to just read about what God is saying to them as they get revelation from the word and they approach the daily pressures of ministry. the athlete i would love to read their thoughts as they tackle their sport one ball at a time…

sorry ladies…the only female blog i read regularly is my best friends. check hers out-she truly hears from God and writes it down-its real!

meanest mom on the planet sells her sons car

January 18, 2008 Leave a comment

found this post on a blog i love to read…

a mom in iowa found a bottle of alcohol under the seat of her 19 year-old son’s car, and placed this ad in the local classifieds:”Totally uncool parents who obviously don’t love teenage son, selling his car. Only driven for 3 weeks before snoopy mom who needs to get a life found booze under front seat. $3,700/offer. Call meanest mom on the planet. “The son soon found himself on foot. And the meanest mom on the planet became the target of accolades from across Iowa and beyond.

the link to the full story includes [She said] “The ad cost a fortune, but you know what? I’m telling people what happened here. I’m not just going to put the car for resale when there’s nothing wrong with it, except the driver made a dumb decision,” Hambleton said. “It’s overwhelming, the number of calls I’ve gotten from people saying, ‘Thank you, it’s nice to see a responsible parent.’ So far, there are no calls from anyone saying, ‘You’re really strict. You’re real overboard, lady.’ ”Steven Hambleton, a freshman business major at Briar Cliff University in Sioux City, obviously was not one of the callers. And he didn’t feel much like talking when contacted Tuesday.“I don’t think you can print” his response to the ad, his mother said. “He’s very, very unhappy.

why do i blog?

January 13, 2008 Leave a comment
reasons why i blog?
 
1. i believe i have something to say…or close to 100 per day would not read what i write.
2. life is so full of drama…my blog is my thoughts on life.
3. i am a real person with real struggles…i can’t walk on water, so what you read is my way of working out life’s struggles.
4. truth- someone needs to tell it.
5. challenge- someone needs to be challenged in life.
6. focus- blogging helps me focus on life and grasp how God is working in everyday life.
7. influence- reading a good blog can influence the way you process life… 
8. youth ministry- i write alot about what i love to do- youth ministry. 
 
here are some blogs i read…
 
i read about 35 other blogs on a regular basis…
 
if you have a blog and don’t blog, then ask yourself a simple question…why?